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Can People Really Change?

The apostle Paul is one of the most revered men of faith found in the Bible. God used him mightily to spread the gospel, bring people to Christ, and divinely inspired him with the knowledge and words to write over 48% of the New Testament. Paul’s writings are full of wisdom, written by a man who had great patience and love for those around him. Paul is the one who wrote, “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails(1 Corinthians 13:4-8).

However, if you would have been introduced to Paul before his conversion on the road to Damascus, you would have met a very different man than the one who wrote first Corinthians.

Who Paul Was (Before Christ)

Before his encounter with Christ, Paul was consumed with hatred, not love. In Acts chapter 26, Paul tells King Agrippa precisely the type of man he was before his conversion: “Indeed, I myself thought I must do many things contrary to the name of Jesus of Nazareth. This I also did in Jerusalem, and many of the saints I shut up in prison, having received authority from the chief priests; and when they were put to death, I cast my vote against them. And I punished them often in every synagogue and compelled them to blaspheme; and being exceedingly enraged against them, I persecuted them even to foreign cities.”

This is why Paul is such a wonderful example of the transforming effect Christ has on people.

Through Paul’s life, conversion, and ministry, we can see that God is powerful enough to change even the hardest of hearts and use that person for His glory and to accomplish God’s purposes.

Now I know it’s easy to read and believe that God made Paul and many other men and women in the Bible new creations in Christ. However, it’s not always easy to think that God will do the same thing with the difficult or hurtful people that are in our own lives.

Let’s talk about the person the Lord just put on your heart

Maybe you’ve been praying for them to change or come to Christ for years, yet there hasn’t been any transformation in their lives. Have you started to believe, whether consciously or unconsciously, that they will never change? If you have, your prayers for them have probably changed as well.

Although the words in your prayer may be the same, if your faith that God will or can change them has diminished, you have rendered your prayers ineffective. It is only through faith that our prayers become powerful (Matthew 21:22). If we don’t have confidence in God’s powers and abilities, we are speaking empty words.

If this is you, I want to encourage you today that there is hope for whoever the Lord has put on your heart. He put them there for a reason! Have hope in knowing that a person’s future or salvation doesn’t depend on who they are today, but on who God has always been. It is the power and love of Christ that not only changes people but also saves. I think many Christians can easily forget that we were all once just as lost as the lost are today…

All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned, every one, to his own way; and the Lord has laid on Him (Jesus) the iniquity of us all. Isaiah 53:6

…and that all of us struggle with different sins:

Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who submit to nor perform homosexual acts, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor verbal abusers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.1 Corinthians 6:9-11

New Creations In Christ

None of us are less of a sinner or any more deserving of salvation than anyone else. We are saved now not because of who we are or were, but who God is. He is gracious and merciful, and He doesn’t want anyone to perish (2 Peter 3:9). God “saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit” (Titus 3:5).

We are saved because of what Christ did on the cross, for it is only by His blood that we can enter into communion with a Holy God (Ephesians 1:7-10, Romans 5:9-10, Isaiah 53).

Jesus not only saves people but transforms them into new creations in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). He is able to give a person a new heart and a new spirit (Ezekiel 36:26). That is the transforming power of Christ!

God can change that difficult or lost person in your life, and in the process, as you pray for them, He will change your heart for that person as well.

Empty, faithless prayers don’t produce anything good in you or the person you’re praying for, but fervent prayers, full of faith, change lives (James 5:16).

For those who have been just going through the motions, praying but not having faith in what God can do, I encourage you to start praying for yourself. That God would give you eyes to see that person how He sees them, and a heart that loves them how He loves them. Tell the Lord that you believe that He can do any and all things, including changing that person, and ask Him to take away any unbelief you may have. Ask forgiveness for your unbelief and for any sinful feelings or thoughts you have toward that person. Then, the next day pray it again. Keep praying until the Lord answers.

For those of you who are on the brink of leaving that person entirely out of your prayers, I urge you to keep praying and not lose hope. Remember that your hope lies in an unchanging, faithful, and loving God who hears your prayers and who desires (more than you do) for that person to either change or accept Him in their heart.

God is working, whether you see Him or not in the process.

Walk and pray by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).


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